When a man describes what he wants in a woman, does he
really know what he is asking for? When he gives his laundry list of things he
desires in his ideal mate does he truly want what he’s asking for? Ladies, when
a man says he wants ‘a good Christian’ woman does he really want a Christian
woman in theory, or does he want ‘a good Christian’ woman in practice?
Madame Noire reporter asks this question because more often
than not when men give a general list of things they desire in a mate, and one
trait they say they desire is the trait of a woman being a Christian, or one
who attends church, has a relationship with the Lord, a God fearing woman or my
personal favorite… a Virtuous Woman.
While these are all admirable traits and any man who is a
believer in Christ should desire a woman who fears the Lord, I wonder how many
of those men really want a woman who does more than profess to be a God fearing
woman/Christian, or attend church on Sunday faithfully; and actually lives her
life in a manner that honors God. Because believe it or not, there is a
difference that many men are aware of but choose not to take heed to.
I wonder this because more often than not many men will meet
women who live their lives to please and honor God (or at least try their best
too) and then they are often questioned about their lifestyle, the men may try
to challenge it, it or they are instantly sent into the friend zone.
This leads me to believe that when some men say they desire
women who are God fearing/Christian women what they really want are women who
simply attend church on Sunday, shout during morning worship, but on Monday
they slob them down without a problem! I know this sounds contradicting and
even a little harsh, but this is the reality of some Christian and
non-Christian men’s thought process when it comes to desiring a Christian
woman.
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